present participle- sanctifying
Webter’s Dictionary defines this word as:
“set apart as or declare holy; consecrate”
“to impart or impute sacredness, inviolability, or respect to”
I gave birth to my third baby two and a half weeks ago so I am in the throes of the postpartum period – or the 4th trimester, as it’s often called.
Diapers overflow the trashcans in basically every room.
Spit up is on virtually every shirt I own, and every onesie he wears.
Giant pads still grace our bathroom, alongside the squirt bottle sitting next to the toilet.
Stitches, not yet dissolved, a physical reminder of the force a 10lb6oz baby has when making his way through the birth canal and into the world head-first.
Lanolin cream stashed in all the common nursing spots, to hopefully prevent the cracks and blood that accompanied my previous two nursing journeys.
Sleep coming in two to three hour stretches, bleary eyes half open as I answer the midnight cries of the babe by my bedside.
This is not my first time experiencing the postpartum period.
But, it is my first time seeing it as sanctifying.
As I rock my sweet babe in the middle of the night, clad in giant pad and spit-up crusted nursing tank – I am being purified.
As I sit out from the pool until my stitches have healed, with my guy strapped to my chest, perfect lips trembling in the way only newborn lips can – I am being purified.
As I do the tenth load of laundry in a week, in between cuddles and snuggles, the scent of laundry soap mixing with that distinct baby smell that only lasts so long – I am being purified.
As work is put on hold, the general busyness of life comes to a slow crawl, but the hours in the day are long and repetitive – I am being purified.
As I have to tell my daughters I can’t play with them right now, but witness them dote lovingly on their brother – I am being purified.
Purified from selfishness. My body, time, and energy are devoted to caring for the wee one that depends on me for survival.
Purified from pride. Motherhood is the ultimate humbler, reminding me I can’t do it all and help is to be accepted.
Purified from busyness. Slowness is forced upon me, and it is a gift.
Purification and sanctification.
So, yes, this 4th trimester? It is intense. It is messy. It is painful. It is exhausting.
But, oh. It is healing. It is beautiful. It is love-filled.
It is sacred.
And for it, I am exceedingly thankful.